5 Days

We've been home now from the hospital for 5 days. Everyone we talk to asks, "are you guys settling in," or "how are you doing settling in?" Or any variation of that phrase. The truth is, I'm not sure once you start a family that you're ever settled. At least that's the way I feel. Now, don't misinterpret what I'm saying. We're certainly well versed by now with leaky diapers, being up in the middle of the night, being thrown up on, etc, etc. But I'm refering to the day to day process of raising a family.

Okay, okay. I realize we're only 20 months into this thing, and lots of you reading this blog have been parents for a long, long time. You probably laugh when I give my opinions on some things and think I'm very niave. But I can only relate my own personal experience.

But here's the deal for me: We are now responsible for 2 precious little people who mean the entire world to us. A ridiculously silly 20-month old girl who still causes tears to well up in my eyes when she jumps in my lap to snuggle before bedtime. And now this tiny little guy who is the best sleeper, and smells so perfect when you kiss his head. Do you know that smell? The combo of baby shampoo, A&D ointment, and the "scentless" baby detergent for the clothes and blanket you have him wrapped in?

To me, being settled means you're finished and can relax for a minute. I feel like Beck and I are just at the start of a parenting adventure, not getting ready to rest or relax.

I will say that one of the first hurdles we've cleared is Charlie being comfortable having another baby in the house. (that is funny because we really need to stop referring to Charlie as a baby now). She's been about as perfect as you could expect. She really adores baby Will, and is very helpful with everything about having him in the house.

So, so far so good, 5 days in. I'd almost forgotten how good Beck is with a newborn.